IVY COMPTON-BURNETT

THE EARLY YEARS

Childhood and Youth

Ivy aged 3 INTRODUCTION

FAMILY HISTORY

CHILDHOOD

DEATHS

AN ABNORMAL CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH?


INTRODUCTION

'Autobiography is not in my line and my life has to the outside eye been uneventful.' - I.C.B.

What sort of woman could write such idiosyncratic works, and what experiences gave her such a bleak but comic view of the human condition and of tyranny within the family?
These questions, which soon occur to any reader of her novels, were unanswered In her lifetime. She was prepared to say little about her past life or even to discuss her novels. Below her photograph on the back cover of a 1958 paperback edition of one of her novels she wrote:
'I have had such an uneventful life that there is little to say...'
Fortunately for posterity, Hilary Spurling embarked on a major biography within a few years of her death. She must have been discouraged by the sight of her private papers - a shoebox half-full of engagement diaries and fan-mail. It is a tribute to her research that she was able to write two substantial volumes of biography, based on many interviews with friends and in particular with two surviving sisters, willing to give details of her early years.
This summary of her childhood and young adult life leans heavily on Mrs Spurling's work, and attempts to let the facts speak for themselves in quotations from those who knew her, and from Dame Ivy herself in comments she made to friends. Mrs Spurling relates much of her subject's life to episodes in particular novels. Her speculations are usually convincing, but I have avoided using them.

FAMILY HISTORY

Ivy Compton-Burnett was the first child of her father's second marriage. She was born in Pinner in 1884, less than a year after her father's remarriage. His first wife had died in childbirth only two years earlier. This was the sixth child of the first marriage, and Ivy was born into a house with five surviving stepsiblings - two boys and three girls - ranging in age from nine to two years. In time the second wife would have six further children.

Although she grew up in a family of twelve, the children formed distinct groups according to ages and interests. The stepchildren were always regarded as less intelligent than the second family, and, despite living together, it seemed as though two separate families were being raised in the one house. There was a similar sharp division within the second family. Ivy was closest to her two brothers, Guy, a year her junior, and Noel, three years younger than his sister. The remaining three children, Juliet, Katharine and Stephanie were all intensely musical and formed another separate group.

Her father, James Compton Burnett - the hyphen was added later by his second wife - was a physician. he studied at Vienna but eventually graduated in Scotland at Glasgow University. His first post was in a Glasgow hospital where he had a dramatic conversion to homeopathy, and became its pugnacious advocate, writing many books and much medical journalism, and building a large and successful London practise. He was an intelligent, outgoing and strong personality, straightforward and outspoken. He was a good father but lived in London for most of the week, only spending the weekends with his family. When Ivy was seventeen he died suddenly of a heart attack.

Curiously, he met his second wife, Katherine Rees, as a patient, sent to him complaining of weakness and other vague symptoms. He claimed to have cured her, published her case history, and married her some eight months later. She was fifteen years his junior, daughter of a future Mayor of Dover, domineering, exacting, disliked living in the country, and was 'not at all maternal'.

CHILDHOOD

Ivy was raised and educated at home. When his first wife died, her father employed Ellen (Minnie) Smith - 25 when Ivy was born - to care for the step-children. She remained with the family, raising all twelve children. Ivy's mother said to her: 'You love Mummy and you love Daddy'. Ivy replied: 'But I love Minnie best.' Later in life Ivy would say of her mother: 'She loved us but she didn't like us very much.....well, she showed great interest when we were ill and so on, you know. We knew she cared. But we really loved Minnie.'

Like other Victorian children, even in relatively wealthy families, the Compton-Burnetts were not indulged: a sparse diet and cold rooms were thought to be good for them, After several moves the family settled in the fashionable part of Hove in a new thirteen bed- roomed, redbrick house. They had about seven servants - cook, butler, maids, gardener and pageboy. While Ivy grew up familiar with the upstairs-downstairs lifestyle, she always lived in new houses, and her experience was of the newly affluent middle class rather than of the hereditary rich and their old country houses, the subjects of her fictions.

Her close companions throughout childhood, and until their death, were her brothers Guy and Noel. Guy, a year her junior, was his mother's favourite, and from an early age was of a strong but pleasant temperament and intellectually brilliant. Noel, two years younger than his brother, was, in his early years, quiet, dreamy and thought rather backward. They formed a close trio, playing together, composing verses, creating secret childhood religions and rituals. They teased their tutor, Miss Mills, who taught Ivy from the age of six, followed in later years by another daily tutor, Mr Salt, who taught the children Latin and Greek. Ivy continued her classical studies with him, and he prepared her for her college entrance exam.

'We came of a booky family,' Ivy said in later life. But that applied only to this trio. The five stepchildren, not 'booky', were separately educated. The four musical youngest daughters became pupils of Dame Myra Hess

There is little evidence that Ivy's childhood was unhappy. The rigours of her childhood were common to most children of her class. There were tensions in the large household. The mother resented her husband's absences and may have resented the social difficulties posed by his unorthodox medical views. She probably resented her stepchildren. Her own Methodist background was a social disadvantage, and her worries about status found expression in the hyphen she inserted between Compton and Burnett. Later she would become a family tyrant. The lack of a close relationship between parents and children is typical of the period for families with nannies and servants. When he was there her father seems to have been a loving parent, especially to Ivy..

All this changed with a series of deaths in the family.

DEATHS

Her father died in 1901, her brother Guy in 1905, her mother in 1911, and her brother Noel in 1916 - her four closest relatives in the space of fifteen years.
When her father died suddenly of a heart attack, Ivy was seventeen. He was sixty, and left his wife with thirteen children, ranging in age from 25 to less than two. Although he left a substantial estate of over £67,000, his widow practised rigid household economies for the rest of her life. She became a perpetual mourner, and the children wore black for many years. She grieved extravagantly and openly, and made huge emotional demands on the children, especially Guy, who at the age of sixteen was forced to take over his father's role. Ivy became secretive and withdrawn during these years, but could not have escaped her mother's demands and her rages and scenes, which increased with the years. Her mother was the first model for the domestic tyrants of her novels.
The children had few friends outside the home, and Ivy and her brothers Noel and Guy retreated from the others, pursuing their studies and games as privately and secretly as was possible in such a large family. Ivy left home in 1902 to study at Royal Holloway College, an all-female establishment which had recently been accepted as part of London University. There are conflicting accounts by her contemporaries there; some found her sociable, others distant. She studied classics and was expected to obtain a first, but following the death of her brother took a second in her finals the following year.
In 1905, Guy, nineteen, and regarded as the brightest of the three, went to Cambridge to read classics. He died of influenza within the year.
Ivy returned home in 1906, helped with the education of the younger children, and coached her brother Noel for university entrance. Noel, who had been considered the least promising of the three, blossomed at university and took a double first in 1910. He subsequently won a fellowship to King's College.
During the next few years Ivy wrote her first novel Dolores. Her mother became increasingly deaf. In 1909 she developed breast cancer, suffered greatly with primitive radium treatment, and died in 1911. Dolores was published four months earlier.
Mother's death came as a release to the whole family. Over the next few years they began to realise that they were free to leave home, except for Ivy, who was was reluctant to let the family break up, or to relax the harsh routine of past years. In turn, and in Noel's absence, Ivy was forced into the role of family head to her many siblings. Surprisingly, she became a tyrant herself.
Ivy and her brother were the trustees of their mother's will. They already had their own money, but the four younger children were to be in their care as guardians until they were 24. In her will her mother had stipulated that Ivy should remain in the home as long as she was single and 'take the head of it if she so wishes'.
From then on Ivy became interested in money and its management, and took part in the management of the trust fund for the next fifty years. She also started to manage the housekeeping. To the others she seemed to have taken mother's place.
Ivy was always antagonist to music, and her sisters' practising distressed her more and more. She eventually banned it in the house, and the piano was removed to a hired room nearby. One of the younger girls was despatched to boarding school against her will, and after only two terms changed to another school without consulting her. In such small tyrannies she was as cruel as her mother but less emotional. She was organised, calm, and used her sharp tongue to impose her will.
Her life had occasional breaks, such as a holiday in the Tyrol with her brother. Friends regarded them as the most devoted brother and sister they had ever seen, but in 1914 Noel became engaged to Tertia Beresford, his best friend Jack's sister. She was no intellectual, and it is difficult to imagine Ivy approving of the match.
At the outbreak of war in 1914 the Compton-Burnett children decided to break away from Ivy and move to London. The war forced them to abandon the plan.
The move to London cancelled, Ivy's sisters finally revolted. Their music teacher, Myra Hess, advised Vera and Judy that they must get away. All four decided to escape, and lived for the next twenty years in London with Myra Hess. The house was sold, Ivy's furniture put in storage. She had nowhere to go; her tyranny had ended in her defeat and in the break-up if the family. In the midst of this mutiny Noel volunteered and was commissioned in November. He married in June 1915 shortly before he was posted to France and the front.
In the Autumn of 1915 Ivy proposed that she should join her sisters; they refused to have her. She lived with friends briefly, then shared a flat with Noel's new wife Tertia, presumably for her brother's sake. Noel in the next year wrote regularly to his wife and her brother, but less often to his sister.
Noel was killed in action on the 14th of July 1916. When she received notification of his death the young widow immediately swallowed an overdose of sleeping tablets. She recovered, and Ivy, calm and impassive, supported her, attended to their affairs, and arranged a nursing home for her. It says something for Tertia's social status that Mr Asquith, the Prime Minister, took time to write to a friend: "It is too sad to think that T's husband is killed, but I am afraid it is so. I tremble to think what will happen to her. And his loss is a terrible waste."
Ivy continued to visit her sister-in-law faithfully for the next few years, showing little open grief herself. Later she would say: "It was a terrible war; it got into every life, it got into every home."
In the next few years she shared a home with a friend, and made other female friends. But her troubles and bereavements were not at an end. In December 1917 her two youngest sisters, aged 18 and 22, were found dead in bed. They had shut themselves in their room and swallowed the contents of four bottles of the hypnotic Veronal. The servants believed they had gone on holiday, and their bodies were not discovered for over a fortnight. In the preceding years they had gradually abandoned their musical studies and become interested in spiritualism; they had become more withdrawn, and had probably become dependent on Veronal.
Ivy was at the inquest but did not give evidence. She had had little recent contact with them, but had been their tyrant in the past, and suffered from insomnia after their death. When, rarely, she talked about these years in later life, she blamed their deaths on too much music. But when she repeatedly said: "Them both dying like that quite smashed my life up, it quite smashed my life up," she was referring not to them but to Guy and Noel.
To round off her youth, as it were, she contracted influenza in the great pandemic of 1918, which killed so many, and disabled so many others. She was found almost unconscious, and was delirious and dangerously ill for at least a month. For many months thereafter she was weak and unable to read or write. For a longer period she was withdrawn and inactive, spending much of her time reading melodramatic novels, eating chocolates, and doing occasional needlework. The second and happier part of her life began on the 6th of October 1919, when her friend Margaret Jourdain came to live with her. Ivy was then thirty-five, her friend eight years her senior.

AN ABNORMAL CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH?

Ivy's life has two phases. The first, her childhood and youth, extends to 35 years and the end of the '14-'18 war. As we have seen it was full of sorrow and unhappiness. It was followed by a fallow time, after her severe attack of influenza and her bereavements, in which she became inert, if not depressed, and only slowly recovered. In the second period, which can be dated to the publication of Pastors and Masters in 1925, she emerges as a mature novelist, self disciplined to produce a book annually for many years, and a formidable woman, who said next to nothing of her past and disliked the subject being raised in conversation. She lived quietly with Margaret Jourdain, surrounded by a circle of young homosexual men. In the early years of their relationship Margaret Jourdain was the more famous, cultivated by young interior decorators who admired her furniture expertise. for some years Ivy remained a quiet background figure. As her fame grew she came to be the more important figure, and literary young men outnumbered the decorators and designers.
Ivy has become a gay icon, and figures regularly in lists of homosexual writers, but there is no evidence that she had a sexual relationship with Margaret Jourdain. When the latter died Ivy stated that she had never entered her bedroom in all the years they had lived together. Yet she was sympathetic to homosexuals, attracted them, and was interested in the subject - unusually so for the period. Her long relationship to Jourdain was a kind of marriage, but in these days two women could live together without remark.
There has been speculation about events in her early years. It has been said that her two sisters killed themselves because they were involved in an incestuous lesbian relationship. There is nothing to support the rumour. More plausible is the theory that her brother Noel was homosexual. It was said that his marriage was never consummated, and his bride was the sister of his closest friend. In the years he was there, Cambridge was full of precious young men and celibate dons, and the atmosphere almost overtly homosexual. But it remains a theory. Were it true it might explain her sympathy with young men in later years, and her interest in homosexuality.
In all speculation about her early life it is important to remember the period. Ivy was not alone in her bereavement - most families in Britain had lost someone in the trenches or at sea, and deaths in childhood were still commonplace in an age without antibiotics. In the post-war years she belonged to a generation of spinsters and young widows with too few men of the right age and class to provide husbands - the officer class had suffered disproportionately. And in her station in society it was the norm to be raised by servants rather than by parents. For all these reasons her early years are less abnormal than we, looking back nearly a century, are inclined to think.
If we imagine her state of mind while she was recovering from influenza it is easy to see how when taking stock she could reach conscious decisions about her future path. She had always wanted to write, and had a book published with literary if not commercial success. She had had years of unhappiness with her mother, had tried to take her place as head of the family and had become a tyrant' but had failed to dominate her siblings, who had successfully rebelled against her. Those she had been closest too had died, young, suddenly, and unexpectedly: her father and her two brothers. She may have felt that Noel had let her down by marrying someone so unsuitable, and have felt angry and hence guilty about his death.
She must certainly have vowed never to be hurt again, never to put herself in such a vulnerable position, and to channel her feelings into her books, where she could work out the complexity of family relationships on paper, illuminate the dark corners of parent's and children's' lives, and come to terms with the past. She developed a new persona - if the iron had not entered the soul it had surely made a carapace that sheltered her from hurt. She became tart, cruelly witty, the interrogator rather than the interrogated. She had few remaining weaknesses. She refused to talk about the hurts in the past. She became upset in the second world war and refused to stay in London during the blitz. She behaved badly during Margaret Jourdain's last illness when she was irritable and difficult with her when she was dying. She was stricken after the death and took a long time to recover from it.
Graham Greene believed that Christ was betrayed in the childhood of Judas. We are unlikely to learn more about Compton-Burnett's early years. There is enough information to explain much about her books and her later life, but no one revelatory event, no Kane's sledge, emerges, and it is unlikely that one existed.


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